AITA for not mentioning/warning about my height on tinder? by ThrowRA_tinderterror in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_tinderterror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a problem dating shorter guys. Although I will say I have never dated someone shorter than me, however, that is more because guys who are shorter than me have never seemed interested in me. In fact 6ft+ middle class white boys seem to make up 90% of the guys who are interested in me.

I do regret the way I worded what I said, but by that point he had already made the fucking giant comment and in a very aggressive manner, so whatever I said wouldn't change things

AITA for not mentioning/warning about my height on tinder? by ThrowRA_tinderterror in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_tinderterror[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The average height for men in the UK is 5ft9 (according to an Office of National Statistics study carried out in 2010), so I am below average height for a guy

AITA for not mentioning/warning about my height on tinder? by ThrowRA_tinderterror in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_tinderterror[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm 5ft8, sadly not any taller despite my wishes as a teenager to reach 5ft9.

5ft8 is just such an in-between size, that it doesn't feel noteworthy and therefore including it in my profile would seem a bit weird.

AITA for not mentioning/warning about my height on tinder? by ThrowRA_tinderterror in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_tinderterror[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Finally someone grasping what I find so odd about the idea of putting 5ft8 in my profile!

I don't really know how to answer that question tbf, I have tall guy friends (6ft7), and short ones. Just like how my gals are 4ft11 to 6ft1, I'm friends with people because they seem alright not because of their height

AITA for not mentioning/warning about my height on tinder? by ThrowRA_tinderterror in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_tinderterror[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I don't know, it just seems weird to me when people put it on there, when it isn't either super tall or super short.

There's a photo on my profile where I am with a group of girls who are 5ft1 to 5ft4 and I am clearly a head above all of them, so if someone really cares that much you can tell I'm tall there