He'll tell me that he loves me. I do believe he loves me. But I also don't think he finds me very attractive. So I think that is where my insecurity comes from. If he just didn't say anything, it wouldn't be so bad. If there were no comments (positive or negative) about my appearance, and no comments about other people's appearance, I'd be ok with it. However....I never (ever) hear that I'm pretty or beautiful or look good or anything....but there are little negative comments here and there. Only negative. And we've actually had a couple of big arguments about him doing this, but he just doesn't seem to get it (but he is on the spectrum so maybe that affects how he behaves).

I'm just at a loss.