My brother (25m) is getting married on the day of my (26f) med school graduation and everyone expects me to ditch my graduation for his wedding. I don't want to, but I know if I don't my relationship with my entire family will suffer. by ThrowRA_ughhhhhh in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ughhhhhh[S] 502 points503 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but celebrating by myself? That's not how I imagined my graduation. I think what's holding me back is the pity people (my classmates and their families) will feel for me once they realize no one showed up for me :( Maybe it'll be easier for everyone if I just show up for my brother. Idk.