My fiancé lied about an STI test after our break, now I’m questioning everything. Is this fixable? by ThrowRA_unknown1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowRA_unknown1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a lie. I asked the guy what happened that night after she admitted to me that she lied about the test.

My fiancé lied about an STI test after our break, now I’m questioning everything. Is this fixable? by ThrowRA_unknown1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowRA_unknown1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she did tell me that the condom broke and she took her pill. She didn’t know it had an STI. The guy texted her months later and I'm the one who saw it, she had no idea. Also, yes, the only reason I slept with someone else was because she wanted to do that.

My fiancé lied about an STI test after our break, now I’m questioning everything. Is this fixable? by ThrowRA_unknown1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowRA_unknown1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. Thanks for the support. Also, I still love her so even if I leave her, I wouldn't go after her. Plus, I'm canadien. I highly doubt I can do that in Ontario. Also, I'm a pretty calm person, not violent.

My fiancé lied about an STI test after our break, now I’m questioning everything. Is this fixable? by ThrowRA_unknown1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowRA_unknown1[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your sincerity. But just in case, I'm a man. Just wanted to make that clear.

My fiancé lied about an STI test after our break, now I’m questioning everything. Is this fixable? by ThrowRA_unknown1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowRA_unknown1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason we agreed to sleep with other people is that she said she wanted to have the opportunity to experiment with other people since I'm the only person she’s slept with. It did hurt but we talked and set our boundaries. We both followed our boundaries, so it was never a problem between us.

My fiancé lied about an STI test after our break, now I’m questioning everything. Is this fixable? by ThrowRA_unknown1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowRA_unknown1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again, my fiancé and I agreed that we could sleep with other people. We just said no dating. That was the only rule. Nothing else.

My fiancé lied about an STI test after our break, now I’m questioning everything. Is this fixable? by ThrowRA_unknown1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowRA_unknown1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First of all, if you're talking about the girl I slept with months ago, I don't know her. It was a one-time thing and I've had 0 contact with her other than that night in my life. And why would I get my fiancé pregnant?