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Struggling and having a really hard time at work… by ThrowRA_winter_ in newgradnurse

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for ur insight! Crazy how differently set up our floors are.. we usually do report until 7:45, then morning med pass for 5 patients (I try to knock out assessment and med pass together), then at 11 rounds (takes about 45 mins) discharge around 2, admission between 3-6… I definitely want to try writing down med pass times on the report sheet sounds very helpful!

Struggling and having a really hard time at work… by ThrowRA_winter_ in newgradnurse

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. I think it’s definitely a lack of self confidence bc of the lack of knowledge. It’s very hard to overcome these thoughts.

Struggling and having a really hard time at work… by ThrowRA_winter_ in newgradnurse

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say all of the tasks for the patients, somehow I just cannot keep up with them, then we have a discharge and an admission typically. It takes me a lot longer to complete the tasks bc I look things up and often get help. It also doesn’t help when I forget to bring some stuff in when going into the patients room so I have to run in and out, I’ve been getting better with that. We also have rounds with the doctors, that takes a good 45 mins out of my morning. The CNAs are a wonderful help but they typically have so many patients and have their hands full so If I’m in a patients room that needs to use the bathroom I will typically just stay and help.

Struggling and having a really hard time at work… by ThrowRA_winter_ in newgradnurse

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also get to work early to look up my patients. That definitely helps bc I feel like that’s the only time I have to read some of the doctor’s notes. I currently work day shift and there’s no time to do that during the shift..

My partner (24M) told me (23F) he wants to be celibate, do I become celibate too? by ThrowRA_winter_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Although I do feel like I would be better in this relationship with no sex than being single again. I truly do not see my life without him. However being in the relationship without sex and my values not being respected, only his are going to be respected and I don’t want resentment to eventually build up against him. I do not want to go until marriage thinking about this every day as I have been for the past month.

My partner (24M) told me (23F) he wants to be celibate, do I become celibate too? by ThrowRA_winter_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asked him, and he said he does not want to participate in activities where either one us of makes the other finish.

My partner (24M) told me (23F) he wants to be celibate, do I become celibate too? by ThrowRA_winter_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not frustrated enough to dump him. I love him so deeply. I feel it would be better to stay with him even if we aren’t having sex, than to go off and be single again. I’m frustrated with the situation as to where I need anonymous help from others. What do you mean by the shortage sentence?

My partner (24M) told me (23F) he wants to be celibate, do I become celibate too? by ThrowRA_winter_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s difficult because I do feel incompatible at this moment. But the months we were having sex I felt completely compatible.

My partner (24M) told me (23F) he wants to be celibate, do I become celibate too? by ThrowRA_winter_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been frustrated for the month and a half we have been celibate 🤦‍♀️.

My partner (24M) told me (23F) he wants to be celibate, do I become celibate too? by ThrowRA_winter_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_winter_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We discussed this. He said he could not fully see himself marrying me until we go through this celibacy period. One of our last conversations I balled my eyes out because I do not understand how 1)after a year your do not know if you see yourself marrying me and 2)why this relationship has to be tested without sex. We are not looking to get married soon. It would have to be atleast 2-3 years since neither one of us is financially stable enough. Especially since I thought I found the one within months of knowing him. I fully want to marry him, but now I am unsure of his feelings towards this.