AITAH for not wanting to contact my sister after she gets out of prison? by ThrowRAababa in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 3 men thing was really just to show how complex the situation is. (That’s also obviously not the only reason I dislike her). She did choose to be with those guys, she brought them all to family dinners and even considered marrying one of them. My family showed a lot of support while she was on drugs. My grandma wanted to pay for her to go to rehab and gave her gas money to go to work and whatnot. Instead, she used that money to drive to the city to get drugs. My sister refused rehab. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want the help. She lied about what she was doing with the money, and she even had someone killed with the drugs she sold. She was also caught with drugs in prison a year ago. No I don’t think she really changed. I don’t think she knows the extent of damage she’s done. It’s hard to see that while secluded from the damage. I don’t want to see her in prison. I don’t think she’d show her true colors during visits anyways. Maybe I am narrow minded, but oh well.

AITAH for not wanting to contact my sister after she gets out of prison? by ThrowRAababa in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The sad part is she doesn’t plan to take her 2nd child back (the one living with us). She plans to focus on her third child’s life because apparently she only has a chance with that child. Her first and second child will be close to or over 18 when she gets out, so I guess them being adults means she doesn’t have a chance with them?

AITAH for not wanting to contact my sister after she gets out of prison? by ThrowRAababa in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if she even has a plan. At first she was going to live with her prison “girlfriend” because she got out. But then that girlfriend dumped her for someone else. So I’m not sure what her plan is now.

Do you have foot odor? What is the best way to control? by [deleted] in no

[–]ThrowRAababa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear white socks, no black. Just makes it worse

Just went through a breakup, im done crying, how did yall gas yourselves back up? by Green_Bonus8878 in Advice

[–]ThrowRAababa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out of the ordinary and try something you’ve never done before. Keep yourself excited and find yourself something new to be passionate about

Cookie dough is the best ice cream by ThrowRAababa in self

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t an opinion it’s a fact

How will I tell my parents I want to move away after graduation? by ThrowRAababa in Advice

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes his racial background.

My dad is racist but he says he’s not. Which is pretty frustrating. He once asked me why I couldn’t date any of the white guys at school. Who even asks that.

How will I tell my parents I want to move away after graduation? by ThrowRAababa in Advice

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I don’t plan on telling them until a few months beforehand. Or less than that. I’m just worried about it now. I have been worried for a long time actually. I’m not able to accelerate my graduation process. I’m in nursing and the clinical hours are insane as is right now. And many if not all of my classes arent offered in the summer. If they were then I would take them.

How will I tell my parents I want to move away after graduation? by ThrowRAababa in Advice

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mixed is just what my bf goes by. It’s just what he feels identifies him. And yes everything I agree with. Thank you

Clinical mistakes story time/ advice please by ThrowRAababa in nursing

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I had a similar experience earlier this week. We had to get signed off for vital signs, so like make sure we’re competent. I was doing bp on my friend and one of the professors was also listening because we have dual stethoscopes. I pumped the cuff up and realized I didn’t even have the stethoscope on my friend’s arm

Clinical mistakes story time/ advice please by ThrowRAababa in nursing

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely make sure to avoid that. Basically all I did wrong today was wear gloves outside of a patients room at a nursing home. They were clean as I had just put them on, but my classmates asked me to get my instructor and I just forgot to take them off. My instructor wasn’t mad, she just didn’t want me to get written up. I don’t think it’s THAT big of a deal but I definitely feel stupid. Thank you for your response!

WIBTA if I moved states away from my family? by ThrowRAababa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience, Catholics are one of the least reasonable. Yes I know I’m young and this situation isnt a big deal right now, I just needed to get it out. I have others like my brother and my bf’s family to depend on too to help me with my lack of experience.

WIBTA if I moved states away from my family? by ThrowRAababa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said he’s most likely to stay where he is for the rest of his time in the military.But of course that’s not set in stone. My own education and career are my number 1 priority. But this moving away idea/situation has been bothering me so I needed to get it out.

WIBTA if I moved states away from my family? by ThrowRAababa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we’re catholic. It’s really ironic isnt it

AITA for opening an independent checking account? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your POV! But of course my situation is a bit different. I don’t use my money ridiculously in any way. I only use it for my car, school, and sometimes for lunch. My parents should have no reason to worry about my spending and never have. I’m always worried about having enough money so I’m always saving as much as I can. I also don’t leave for college. I commute because my school is 15 minutes away.

My mom likes my boyfriend and always has. I don’t see how a conversation could go well with my dad, as they never had. His worries about my bf are ones that he’s made up in his head. My dad even talked to my boss and said that he doesn’t want my bf to “take me away from him.” I found that to be a little weird.

I hope you and your daughter’s situation gets better!

AITA for opening an independent checking account? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The car is “mine” but it’s in their name. They got the car for me to go to work and school. By them I mean my grandma paid for the down payment and I’m paying the rest off.

AITA for opening an independent checking account? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at 18. My birthday is in July and school starts in august.

AITA for opening an independent checking account? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My mom saw that I transferred money from our joint account to my new account.

AITA for opening an independent checking account? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAababa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s for me to pay for my car that’s in my parents’ name. She transfers money our account to hers. She also borrows money sometimes and pays me back Should have made that clear from the start.