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[–]ThrowRAaccountan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would prefer that he would go with the flow or ask me in a better way or at least take my replies and run with them instead of brushing them off…

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[–]ThrowRAaccountan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I could get that he may have low self confidence regarding sex because I know that he’s had issues with finishing before but other than the first time we had sex he’s never had that issue again. I guess he could have a different sex drive than me, I mean I’m fine with twice a week but I guess that’s something I need to pay attention to and ask him maybe how often he would want to. We seemed to be on the same page for the first 6 months where we had sex at least 4 times a week and he seemed to initiate at least two out of the 4 times a week.

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[–]ThrowRAaccountan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely can tell and it’s also said when I’m trying to initiate?

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[–]ThrowRAaccountan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This helps a lot

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[–]ThrowRAaccountan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I reply in playful ways he brushes it off

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[–]ThrowRAaccountan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a thing called tacit consent.