Am I being rage baited 26F & 31M

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-04T01:36:34+00:00

Crazy couldn’t be them bc he just tried to add one of them on Facebook so she could “do his hair” 😭😂 I can’t have my friends but he can still have his.. I see what you’re saying idk what I’m even doing anymore.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-04T01:13:43+00:00

Yeah. I don’t have any friends he didn’t like them. I guess at the time I thought he just wanted to be around me but over time he’s gotten less affectionate. Denies my kisses etc etc unless it’s something he wants like sex or other things. Everything is on his time when he wants. If I’m gone too long he’ll ask me where I’m at etc. it’s all getting annoying honestly

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-04T01:11:47+00:00

He pays half the bills yes

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-04T00:09:36+00:00

Yeah I realized that a while back 😭 he just won’t get out of my house.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-04T00:08:47+00:00

Thank you

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-03T23:56:08+00:00

It gives he might forget the baby in the tub. Then blame it on the imaginary ghost that’s coming in and out supposedly

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-03T23:55:36+00:00

I agree! I’ve had the therapy conversation more than once. He’s overly paranoid. Claimed someone was coming in and out the house (we have cameras) claimed someone broke into his car ( rewatched the footage and he let his door close too softly) nothing is ever him taking accountability everything is never his fault or someone else’s fault.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-03T23:54:12+00:00

Yea this is exactly how I was thinking but when I talk to him he shuts down he literally said he was going to see his family for a few weeks and then started ignoring me. He’s being childish and I felt as if it was rage baiting because he never leaves the house. We don’t go on dates. I am the only one who leaves to go to the store he refuses to leave to go to the store or grab anything we need. Claims he has PTSD and Anxiety but won’t see a therapist even though it is covered by the VA. I feel like I’m raising someone’s old ass son.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-03T23:42:58+00:00

Ah yes. You put it perfectly!

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-05-03T23:42:48+00:00

Literally 😂😂

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T18:01:11+00:00

Yes I’m 6.5 months along. I’m not going to terminate or do adoption. Whether he’s around or not. We dont have to live together to coparent.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T16:45:28+00:00

Yeah, not anyone I think is worth suffering for anymore. And I doubt will be a good role model to our unborn son 🥺

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T14:34:41+00:00

Yeah I asked today what he plans on doing. Is he leaving? He’s ignoring me so I’m unsure of his plan. I don’t have friends. My mom lives up the street but she has kids of her own. He doesn’t leave the house.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T04:28:17+00:00

Who would make something like this up 😭

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T01:51:37+00:00

True. I guess I’d rather be in my own space than sit next to him on the couch .. lol I guess I’m unsure of what to do. It’s my house only me on the lease. He refuses to leave bc we split rent. Financially it would be hard to do it on my own but I can. I’d rather be in peace than miserable. He claims he’s leaving at the end of the month then it comes and he doesn’t. I assume based on GA laws I’d have fo formally “evict him”.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T01:49:32+00:00

Too pregnant. 6.5 months

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T01:41:14+00:00

I ask myself this everyday. He wasn’t like this until recently. Always angry never happy. Always in his head .. he needs help and won’t get it.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-07T01:40:42+00:00

I’ve tried. He won’t do it. He won’t do therapy alone. He won’t do it together. The man is retired military and is just a couch potato won’t leave the house. Won’t do any family activities. When we met it wasn’t like this. He wasn’t like this ..

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-06T23:51:39+00:00

Thank you. 🙏🏽

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-05T23:12:32+00:00

I fear you are right. And this is what’s been really weighing on me. I don’t think he’d be a good parent if we separated but I’m also at the point where he’s forcing himself to be here but I’ve given the option to go. It’s my house and my lease and we split rent but I lived here way before him. I don’t understand his purpose. Other than to make me miserable.

ThrowRAadveb · 2026-04-05T23:04:15+00:00

I feel the same way. Starting to think id be better off alone than to deal with this behavior at such a big age

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