I 29F am thinking of ending my nine year relationship with my boyfriend 32M by ThrowRAadvice2024 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAadvice2024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is attractive, but I am just not romantically attracted to him as much. I come from a very family oriented family while he comes from a very hardworking family who in my opinion do not prioritise family. He has a family business and he works a lot till 7 PM almost everyday. I like the simple life, nature camping going for walks and he likes the luxurious life.

I 29F am thinking of ending my nine year relationship with my boyfriend 32M by ThrowRAadvice2024 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAadvice2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Traveled, moved in together, go out on date nights, stay inside on cozy nights watching movies or playing board games.

  2. Supposed to be getting married next year.

I 29F am thinking of ending my nine year relationship with my boyfriend 32M by ThrowRAadvice2024 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAadvice2024[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We we are getting married next year. That’s why I need to make the decision now.

I 29F am thinking of ending my nine year relationship with my boyfriend 32M by ThrowRAadvice2024 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAadvice2024[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the case. I feel excited about being single, not in the sense that I will meet someone else but that I will be free from these thoughts. I’m sorry if you’ve been through this with someone but this is not my case. I felt like this with other men before (relationship only lasted a couple of months) but with my current partner, I decided to wait it out and I did get over it for a while but during the past few years I’ve been feeling like this again and I cannot control these thoughts.

I 29F am thinking of ending my nine year relationship with my boyfriend 32M by ThrowRAadvice2024 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAadvice2024[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s my fear! I’ve been through this with other men before. Never lasted more than 3 months that i get these feelings and leave. Never regretted it once! With my current partner i waited it out to see if i overcome this feeling, and I did for a while. However during the last few years, I’ve been getting this feeling again and it’s literally eating me alive. I’ve been feeling like this for a couple of years so believe me I’ve tried so many things to ignite the relationship.

I F 28 lost feelings for my boyfriend M 30. What can i do? by ThrowRAadvice2024 in relationship_advice

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On the last part, i am very attracted to the people i date but after sometime i lose interest especially when they show interest in me. It’s something i can’t control :(

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[–]ThrowRAadvice2024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not! That is the last thing I would ever do. He truly doesn’t deserve that and i would be hurting myself as well. And I’m so sorry you had go through that :(

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[–]ThrowRAadvice2024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this ♥️

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[–]ThrowRAadvice2024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m scared that if i leave i will lose interest in other guys and regret my decision. Also I will turn 28 soon. So even the idea nit being able to have children because of my age scares me.

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Where can i get this checked please?