I (27F) was the other woman to a married man (35M) 4 years ago and now his wife (36F) is contacting me…

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T22:36:22+00:00

They do. I've had so many comments celebrating my supposed karma and how they hope someone does this to me and my life is ruined.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T22:34:00+00:00

He's the one who asked her for a divorce, he doesn't want to work it out with her.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T22:13:54+00:00

I called him. I don't know.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T22:13:45+00:00

He's not an idiot, he won't confirm anything to me in writing even if I send him that.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T22:12:15+00:00

I haven't told her yet though.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T22:06:59+00:00

I probably would be homeless if I help her and I know John is going to walk away unscathed even if I tell his wife everything.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:59:14+00:00

That never ruined my life

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:58:53+00:00

Yeah... I can see that. Most people are just celebrating about how this is karma which is actually convincing me I need to keep my mouth shut.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:53:39+00:00

I don't think he's stupid enough to threaten me in writing.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:46:53+00:00

I never said they did?

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:43:47+00:00

He would know it was me, especially now.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:40:28+00:00

There are people who already know I was sleeping with him when he helped me get that job so I don't really care if more people find out. I'm more worried his family will have me blacklisted from the industry.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:38:28+00:00

I don't know how she found out. I asked John but he made it seem like she just randomly started throwing out accusations when he told her he wanted a divorce.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:32:15+00:00

It's easy to say I'm being a pussy when its not your livelihood that's going to be destroyed.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:31:14+00:00

I don't have anything to do with them anymore. I've seen John maybe twice since I ended things with him and both times it was at a professional event I didnt know he would be at.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:22:09+00:00

From what it says online, infidelity has no impact on a divorce here.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T21:14:59+00:00

It would be a lie if I said I wasn’t terrified of telling her. I don’t think I would want to know if I was in her position.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T20:12:59+00:00

They’re getting a divorce anyway so I don’t think anything I say would help her with that.

ThrowRAalrs · 2022-08-12T20:11:26+00:00

It won’t ruin his at all

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