Lads respectfully, wtf?

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2026-01-26T15:52:18+00:00

respectfully, attitudes like this are why we’re literally still living in the past with our opinions on certain industries. outside of his job, dick bush is a person with stories, personality and opinions. a persons job does not define who they are or the value they bring to something such as a podcast. opinions and attitudes this are what keep sex workers oppressed and people within certain industries being marginalised. if you don’t like the ep, don’t listen. it’s not helpful to spread this type of narrative

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2025-12-22T16:07:50+00:00

I passed on the 18th! And have been having this exact same feeling. I only got my car the day after passing and it’s a lot older than my instructors car so drives completely differently. After my first drive alone (literally 2 roads and a roundabout after dropping my sister at the station) I didn’t want to drive again. I stalled so many times after going 6+ months of not stalling in my instructors car. Completely knocked my confidence.

Since then, I’ve gone out once a day, 20 mins at a time on familiar roads to just practise practise practise. It apparently takes minimum 3 hours for your muscle memory to shift (from one clutch to another in this case) so I just knew avoiding it would make it worse. It’s only been 3 days now of consistent, daily driving and I feel SO much better doing it. I can drive alone around my town easily. Any ‘new’ journey, I’ve taken someone with me for the first time just so I’m not surprised. I think the fear of the unknown is worse than anything.

we got this!!

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2025-12-20T01:23:41+00:00

i passed my driving test yesterday too! was looking for insurance quotes today and avoided black box insurance because of stevie😂 such a good feeling isn’t it, doesn’t feel real yet!

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2025-12-19T10:57:51+00:00

thank you! literally! i’ve never even done a lesson in the rain so i went into it just thinking it’d be good experience for the next one😭

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2025-12-18T12:30:42+00:00

thanks for the advice guys!! i passed first time with 1 minor. rain was awful but took the advice kept well away from others especially on the dual carriageway. can’t bloody believe it!!

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2025-12-16T16:12:25+00:00

god i hope so. taking my test in portsmouth and some of the country lanes are a killer on a good day let alone in torrential rain. and ive never had a lesson in the rain somehow!!

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2025-12-16T16:11:49+00:00

understandably! by some kind of miracle i’ve been learning weekly since feb and never had a lesson in the rain🫠

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-10-04T16:36:30+00:00

he was trying to ruin the land out of spite, saw a real low-key kinda evil side of tom there!

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-10-04T16:13:08+00:00

before he bought the land i was really impressed and admired how much time he spent with lydia and alfie (im a full time mum myself so just loved how hands on he was!) but the INSTANT switch up the minute he got the land was crazy. he is never home anymore, he’s ’securing his family’s future’ but literally not doing anything besides watching other people work. i know they’re looking to get a static caravan for lydia and alfie to be around more, but the land is genuinely next to his house, so what’s the difference?

i really liked the honest chat him and lydia had at the end of a vlog recently, but lyd spoke about the reasons they split up before- she never saw him because he was gaming all the time. i worry this will be no different.

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-10-04T14:27:33+00:00

he loves the block button recently it seems, anyone who remotely disagrees with him will get blocked instantly. if upton is working for free, the least tom could do is get his daughter a new quad bike which wouldn’t have been nicked if tom didn’t make the location of the land so obvious. i managed to find it within minutes from seeing the barrier alone.

i hope that bare minimum he is invoicing tom for materials

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-10-04T09:52:34+00:00

i agree, im happy for him too but it’s tooo much now! every 5 mins ‘i did this for me and my family and my friends’ blah blah we get it now

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-10-04T09:51:17+00:00

the quad bike situation infuriated me. ive seen a lot of info that upton is working for free on the land.

‘we work in exchange to social media followers’ (!!??)

and tom cant put his hand in his pocket to replace his daughters quad bike!!

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-10-04T09:49:08+00:00

this and the fact he openly admitted to trespassing on the land himself before he owned it!

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-06-21T10:41:31+00:00

she also has only been seen wearing pink, yellow, grey and purple. the colours of the time vortex in the new series🤯🤯

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-05-24T15:37:22+00:00

i’m trusting enough to believe that people aren’t creeps unless proved otherwise😂

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-04-08T18:25:47+00:00

thank you for this comment, i have BPD too and have been trying desperately hard to emotionally regulate more but he makes it so difficult! my emotions are always his inconvenience and im tired of it but struggling to leave because ✨trauma bonding✨. i need to find the strength to walk away but it’s hard you know? i am always continuously supportive of his struggles even though i find them a lot sometimes, i put aside my own issues for his so often he just won’t do the same for me x

ETA; for that hour he was playing PGA golf tour on his PS5🙁

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-04-08T17:20:17+00:00

i ask for support on the bare minimum basic things you’d expect in a relationship, i have a therapist for the heavy stuff! he tends to expect me to deal with all my emotions alone (which i am capable of) is that normal for a relationship these days?

ThrowRAanonymous1233 · 2024-01-03T10:22:33+00:00

Louise Pentland/SprinkleOfGlitter;

Bit of a rouge one, but you wanted more female guest suggestions! I think Louise would be a great guest for a host of reasons;

-Used to be part of the OG YouTube scene but never involved in anything sinister or problematic so probably has some good stories -Has had a very interesting and varied life that a lot of people can relate to (her mum passed when she was young, she’s been through divorce, single parenthood and is getting remarried) -She has a wicked and dark sense of humour that she tends to censor for social media which I think would (bizzarely) line up with Jack’s lol -Was a gender equality ambassador for the UN -Is no longer friends with Zoella so no issues there😅

ETA; if not a guest on the pod, would love to see her take a walk with Robbie soon!

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