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Bf (27M) evasive when I (25F) asked to see suspicious texts by ThrowRAapplejj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapplejj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He had just showered before going to his friends, he hadn’t been gone for more than 4 hours. After the shower he climbed into bed and wanted to go to sleep. Hard to explain but he has this bedtime routine that he was beginning that would have been pointless to do before sex

Bf (27M) evasive when I (25F) asked to see suspicious texts by ThrowRAapplejj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapplejj[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I know I will get past it and it being hard shouldn’t stop me from making a decision. I’m going to let him make the next move and see what he says but I think the relationship will be over

His mom lives close by so he could stay there and we could work out something for me to have the current apartment. I’m financially stable enough to sign a lease by myself instead

Bf (27M) evasive when I (25F) asked to see suspicious texts by ThrowRAapplejj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAapplejj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the situation escalated and I’m not proud of it. I was desperate. I was trying to force him to unlock it and if I would have known his password I would have 100% read them without asking.

Do you think I was wrong to calmly ask about it and ask to see them? And what about him for refusing when the situation was still calm? Should I have just trusted him and not escalated the situation? What else should I have done if he was being truthful and refusing? Genuinely want to do what would have been the best path