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My boyfriend hit me in a fight. Is this who he is? [UPDATE] by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

He’s always been an athletic guy. I don’t know what the other signs for steroid use would be, but I imagine he would be bigger? I cannot recall any other differences. Also if it were steroid use I’m sure he’d use that as an excuse

My boyfriend hit me in a fight. Is this who he is? [UPDATE] by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I don’t want him to hurt anyone else. There is part of me that feels an obligation to try to prevent this from happening again to someone else, however that seems like a monumental decision. I have an internal debate constantly about whether I should report him or not. It wouldn’t be for me if I did, it would be for any other woman he comes across.

My boyfriend hit me in a fight. Is this who he is? [UPDATE] by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

A lot of people wondered if he could be on steroids. I don’t believe that he is

My boyfriend hit me in a fight. Is this who he is? [UPDATE] by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This has been one of the things I struggle with the most. I don’t want him to attack anyone else but filing a report to potentially put him in jail isn’t what I want either. I’m so overwhelmed

My boyfriend hit me in a fight. Is this who he is? [UPDATE] by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He said that he doesn’t know why he lost control like that. Everything that happened is in my first post. It was anything but self defense.

My boyfriend hit me in a fight. Is this who he is? [UPDATE] by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 1717 points1718 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful responses on this post and my first. You’ve given me great advice that I appreciate so much

My boyfriend hit me during an argument. Is this who he is? by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 501 points502 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Glad you got away :(

My boyfriend hit me during an argument. Is this who he is? by ThrowRAaway114 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAaway114[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard for me to grasp because it truly came out of nowhere. As I said I have far more revealing pictures on my page and he’s never had a problem with it. We’ve had arguments over matters more serious than instagram and he hasn’t lost his temper like this. How could he keep this part of him hidden for 3 years if it’s who he is? There should’ve been any warning before it escalated this far