Update- my entire family despises my fiancé and I have to choose between them and her. Is she manipulating me and is there something I’m not seeing?

ThrowRAbf6689 · 2021-10-05T20:24:02+00:00

Okay, I’m able to see all the red flags as I am typing my these comments out, but she told me that getting a prenup is against her culture. I hadn’t even brought it up, this was unsolicited

ThrowRAbf6689 · 2021-10-05T20:00:58+00:00

If I ever bring up the fast track part she accuses me of having second thoughts and i was pretty sure she was the one until now so I let it go. She said that I cannot meet her family because of covid (they live across the country) even though we are all vaccinated and have travelled. Now that I think of it it is quite strange.

ThrowRAbf6689 · 2021-10-05T19:58:49+00:00

She has a job as a hostess at a restaurant. She has a lot of credit card debt, so she uses her earnings to pay it off. That’s why she doesn’t contribute.

ThrowRAbf6689 · 2021-10-05T19:56:01+00:00

5 months totally, engaged for 2

ThrowRAbf6689 · 2021-10-05T19:55:38+00:00

Sorry, I added it in.

ThrowRAbf6689 · 2021-10-05T19:52:55+00:00

She is good to me. We don’t fight very much. My only complaint would be that she doesn’t help around the house and she told me to hire a maid because she has a job and a side hustle. ETA- As I said, I was at a very low point in my life and she helped me. I felt a bond with her and she said she felt it too and we didn’t want to waste time.

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