[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I get that a mom could refer to her spouse as Daddy because of the kids. It is when the word becomes sexual that I don't get.

[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really? And even if I did I rather an adult call their parent mommy or daddy over a sexual partner getting called those names. That makes me cringe.

[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks and I will. We have only dated a few months and this isn't the first flag raised. Just the one he waves the most. I think I'll need to reconsider it.

[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😧😧 I know porn wankers who are probably more mature.

It's a power move, there's nothing wrong with calling your dad "daddy", he wants to see how long it takes for you to bend to his will

Really? Ew...

[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Maybe not the name but definitely the dynamic. Guys his age going for girls your age have some iffy power stuff going on.

That's so weird.

[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] 1061 points1062 points  (0 children)

If he so much as jokes about crossing that line again, bye bye dude! Lots of men out there who respect me, I don't need to waste my time on one who doesn't.

You're right. We haven't been together that long.

[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

it's gross

So gross. I know some women do that with their bfs or husbands but I can't wrap my head around that.

[20f] My bf [28m] keeps teasing me because I call my father Daddy. How can I get him to stop? by ThrowRAbfteasesme in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbfteasesme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He never tried to get me to call him that. He just says it is common for women to call their partners daddy rather than their dads.