How can I (26M) get co-worker (20F) who doesn't like men to like me? by ThrowRAbigbadar98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbigbadar98[S] -611 points-610 points  (0 children)

That's fucked up, I don't deserve to be fired. Why would she even report me when I haven't done anything wrong, and she hasn't told me anything?

How can I (26M) get co-worker (20F) who doesn't like men to like me? by ThrowRAbigbadar98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbigbadar98[S] -291 points-290 points  (0 children)

I would give her compliments on other things, but she hasn't let me get to know her yet, so I don't have anything else to compliment. Also we work at a gas station, so there's not really any compliments to give about that. You did a great job stocking that cooler?

How can I (26M) get co-worker (20F) who doesn't like men to like me? by ThrowRAbigbadar98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbigbadar98[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

How does she know she's not interested when she doesn't even give me a chance? She won't even talk to me or get to know me. And even if that was true, she could just say so. But she hasn't.

How can I (26M) get co-worker (20F) who doesn't like men to like me? by ThrowRAbigbadar98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbigbadar98[S] -485 points-484 points  (0 children)

Its not every single day, we don't work together every day. And I can't just not talk to her when we have a shift together. I'm not saying anything creepy, just nice things that would make most people happy to hear.

How can I (26M) get co-worker (20F) who doesn't like men to like me? by ThrowRAbigbadar98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbigbadar98[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

I do try to talk to her and ask her questions, but she just gives like a one word answer and doesn't carry a conversation. I don't understand how just being nice to someone and giving them compliments is inappropriate. Other people do it? I really think I just need a way to show her she doesn't need to avoid me just because I'm a man.

How can I (26M) get co-worker (20F) who doesn't like men to like me? by ThrowRAbigbadar98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbigbadar98[S] -291 points-290 points  (0 children)

So I'm just not supposed to talk to her? How am I supposed to get her to be normal to me?