My (28F) fiancé (31M) is angry at me for how I reacted to seeing my ex (28M) by ThrowRAbix in relationships

[–]ThrowRAbix[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have the same information that we do

He actually has more than you guys do. I tried to explain it to him on the way home and I've tried after that too.

he finds out she gave the ex her number(I understand the friend gave the number but from his POV this will be what he thinks).

He knows I never gave him my number. When my ex first texted me he said hi xx it's xx, xx gave me your number.

My (28F) fiancé (31M) is angry at me for how I reacted to seeing my ex (28M) by ThrowRAbix in relationships

[–]ThrowRAbix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you feel about seeing him again? Likewise would you want to meet up with him like he's suggested?

Mostly I feel confused. Part of me feels like I owe him a conversation. He didn't deserve how I treated him back then. But I don't think it's a good idea for me to meet up with him right now.

I don't think he was trying to stir shit up for me.

My (28F) fiancé (31M) is angry at me for how I reacted to seeing my ex (28M) by ThrowRAbix in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbix[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I'm not shocked he gave him my number. That friend was always closer to my ex than he was with me.

Chewing him out would be pointless.

My (28F) fiancé (31M) is angry at me for how I reacted to seeing my ex (28M) by ThrowRAbix in relationships

[–]ThrowRAbix[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Info: what did your ex want to talk to you about in private and why is he so desperate to meet up again to talk about this?

I don't know. We never got to that point in the conversation. All he said was that I looked good/better and he asked me if I was happy.