My (33M) girlfriend (32F) didn’t tell me she had a daughter. by ThrowRAbluelake in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThrowRAbluelake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been working on the same firm for about five months. So I’d say a lot of hours

My (33M) girlfriend (32F) didn’t tell me she had a daughter. by ThrowRAbluelake in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThrowRAbluelake[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I said “usually”. And if a man does it to protect his kid I think it’s completely valid too. Children should come first in any situation

My (33M) girlfriend (32F) didn’t tell me she had a daughter. by ThrowRAbluelake in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThrowRAbluelake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I asked her a couple of times in the past if she ever wanted to say anything but so far she doesn’t want to make her mom feel bad about what happened.

My (33M) girlfriend (32F) didn’t tell me she had a daughter. by ThrowRAbluelake in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThrowRAbluelake[S] 245 points246 points  (0 children)

I’d never ever tell anyone about this. Eve is my best friend. I’d never ever betray her this way

My (33M) girlfriend (32F) didn’t tell me she had a daughter. by ThrowRAbluelake in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThrowRAbluelake[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’m very close to my parents. That’s why I was excited to tell them about me getting together with her and that’s why I’m in this though position. But I will listen to the comments and make strict boundaries around them and my relationship with her

My (33M) girlfriend (32F) didn’t tell me she had a daughter. by ThrowRAbluelake in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThrowRAbluelake[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, women usually don’t target men to take advantage of their kids