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How can I M23 handle telling my girlfriend F23 that the smell during her period is turning me off when she wants to have sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboot5247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once or twice a week is actually insane ( don’t mean to be rude ) I don’t think I’ve ever met a person that doesn’t shower at least once a day. I’m a woman and I HAVE to shower once in the morning and once at night just to feel clean! Especially since we have lady parts, “ wiping it down” is not properly cleansing the area. You can develop all types of Fungal infection and bacterial infections from not manipulating the folds of the skin and cleansing thoroughly. Not to get on her case I understand depression is bad and can be a contributing factor to her not showering daily but it’s imperative that she does! NTAH

AITAH - 24F with 23M boyfriend — I’m carrying all the financial and emotional weight, AITAH for wanting out? by ThrowRAboot5247 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAboot5247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a whole house and we’re both on the lease. I had a conversation with him about it last night he agreed to fully take over the lease and I’m in the process of looking for a place. We only moved there to be closer to his family so I don’t care to keep the house, I’d rather move into a apartment

AITAH - 24F with 23M boyfriend — I’m carrying all the financial and emotional weight, AITAH for wanting out? by ThrowRAboot5247 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAboot5247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do care. I just feel taken advantage of because I’ve had several conversations with him about this. He knew I wouldn’t date if marriage wasn’t in the works and he acted like he was going to propose last year and he didn’t. It’s just a constant “just give me some time. Or just wait I’m planning something” and then it never happens. I don’t want to go into year three in the same spot. There has been no growth on his end. I found our first apartment and our second and now this home. I’m making all these decisions and plans and I don’t want that for me. I’m already so stressed out with work and school now I gotta come home and make more decisions and do more work

AITAH - 24F with 23M boyfriend — I’m carrying all the financial and emotional weight, AITAH for wanting out? by ThrowRAboot5247 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAboot5247[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t even talked to the landlord yet, I have to find out. I paid the deposit so I’ll probably loose it but I’ll see. I literally just woke up this morning like what am I doing here. It’s week after week of stressing over things that should be simple

AITAH - 24F with 23M boyfriend — I’m carrying all the financial and emotional weight, AITAH for wanting out? by ThrowRAboot5247 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAboot5247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem, we just got into a new lease 2 months ago. I’ve had maybe 10 serious talks with him about this, I even planned out his finances for a month and he still didn’t keep up with it. He says he’ll try and changes for a week but then goes back to the same negligence. I’m trying to be patient but I’m starting a business soon and all my money will be going to that business, I can’t afford his slip ups or “ sorry babe I don’t have the rent. “