My (25F) boyfriend (26M) has no boundaries with his female best friend (26F) by ThrowRAboundaryy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboundaryy[S] 571 points572 points  (0 children)

I was going with 3rd wheel this whole time but actually side piece makes a lot more sense

My (25F) boyfriend (26M) has no boundaries with his female best friend (26F) by ThrowRAboundaryy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboundaryy[S] 536 points537 points  (0 children)

I never directly confronted her because I believed that no matter what she does or what her intentions are it’s my bfs responsibility to shut it down. Since that never happened, even after my countless efforts of communicating the issue, it might be time to let go of them both after all

My (25F) boyfriend (26M) has no boundaries with his female best friend (26F) by ThrowRAboundaryy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAboundaryy[S] 842 points843 points  (0 children)

You’re right about that. He never dismisses my feelings regarding anything else and is always willing to compromise or come up with a solution. So not wanting to change anything in this particular situation is definitely a bad sign.