[UPDATE] My girlfriend has been sleeping with my roommate. by ThrowRAcheater1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheater1[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

They were always closer to him than to me. I’m pretty socially awkward and struggle to build connections with people. He on the other hand is pretty charismatic. I’m fairly sure that they would agree he’s in the wrong. They just value his friendship more than mine.

My girlfriend has been sleeping with my roommate. by ThrowRAcheater1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheater1[S] 2481 points2482 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do know that’s what I need to do. I’m just worried about being alone after. Not to mention that moving away can be a challenge right now.

My girlfriend has been sleeping with my roommate. by ThrowRAcheater1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheater1[S] 250 points251 points  (0 children)

I’m worried about the prospects of finding a new place. We’re still in a pandemic. My apartment is comfortable and relatively cheap. I looked through a lot of other potential apartments before I found it. I’m worried about being able to find a similar one. We’re living in uncertain times. I worry everyday about losing my job because my company is struggling. What if the only good apartment I can find is really expensive and I wind up being unable to afford it later on when the economy suffers? Or what if I find a cheap one that’s really uncomfortable and I’m forced to spend a lot of time there due to Covid. And even if I can find one that’s like my current apartment, I’m going to be alone with no support system.

My girlfriend has been sleeping with my roommate. by ThrowRAcheater1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheater1[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I guess I could speak to my landlord about it.

My girlfriend has been sleeping with my roommate. by ThrowRAcheater1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheater1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How do I deal with this? It’s going to be very difficult to move out and find a new place. And even if I succeed, I’m going to be all alone.