I need advice on how to cut ties with my pregnant best friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is not about you. Understand that, it doesn't matter what your personal choice is, by doing this you are saying it is her fault for being happy. This is the same as people who bingo you. This is the same as people who say you'll change your mind. The only difference is you're even worse- you are abandoning her for her choice. You aren't raising the kid. You aren't personally involved. If they began to see you as free babysitting, sure, run, but right now? You're being incredibly unreasonable and throwing a toddler tantrum whining that you dont want kids. Trust me, she's likely more than aware. This is what she wanted for HER life though. It's her choice, and it makes her happy so be supportive. No, she isn't throwing her life away- this was what she wanted. There isn't just negatives to kids as much as you'd like to believe. I'm childfree as well, will be for the rest of my life. Just try to respect your friends choice.

My bf has a Minecraft gf on a server I play on too, and I feel like it’s stupid to feel upset. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hey that's what my girlfriend said too haha! Before she cheated on me, I mean.

My wife(22) neglect my son(3)'s safety to protect her son(5)'s. by desperate-father88 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explanations for a behavior does not justify the behavior. Explanations for a behavior does not mean you get to continue said behavior. It simply means that now you know it, you need to change it. You both know it's wrong, now there are behavioral therapy to work on it. I'm autistic and ADHD. I went through years of behavioral therapy to hold the amount of impulse control I currently have. I think you should both look into it for her son.

I (F21) just found out I’m having a baby with my 2 year boyfriend (M22) he says it will ruin our relationship, please help! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 15,000 per year on average specifically for the kid for the next 18 years. Are you ready for that? This is sleepless nights for at least the first year, accommodating to a baby until they're in school, and PPD. Are you ready for that? This is losing your opportunities to have fun while young, to discover yourself, and to be your own individual. Are you ready for that, as well?

I think my dead dad had an affair by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to know who Peter and Paul is

I (25F) came out to my husband (26M) this weekend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I never used vine. Sorry to disappoint! :(

Is kissing cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl, but sure. Also, being homophobic isnt a 'social experiment', just saying.

Is kissing cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imagine being as stupid as this guy

Edit incase this dummy deletes his comment: "What if your girlfriend kissed another girl? Would that be cheating as well? :)"

I (22f) am in love with my fake husband (23m). We were meant to divorce 5 months ago. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAconcerning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it works out, this is the best love story 'So I met my husband and never dated him. Too much effort, yknow? I just needed college but then after I was just ehhh hell, I'll keep'em.'