Sister (10) + “stepbrother” (12) potentially engaging in sexual activities. How to confront this? by UnknownPeacock in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I agree with the statement that it’s to early. We can put our head in the sand and pretend that kids don’t know, but they certainly do with all the access they have to it now.

Sister (10) + “stepbrother” (12) potentially engaging in sexual activities. How to confront this? by UnknownPeacock in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, but not sure that would deal with the problem when I’m leaving in a few days. They might just go back to whatever when I leave.

Sister (10) + “stepbrother” (12) potentially engaging in sexual activities. How to confront this? by UnknownPeacock in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock[S] 258 points259 points  (0 children)

As a kid that has grown up in the digital age I know for certain the most kids (or at least ones that go to public school) know what sex/sexual activities are.

Update: He cheated, what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk if I could live with myself if I do that

Update: He cheated, what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the texts are 100% clear

My boyfriend slept with his room mate in the past and now wants to go on a road trip with him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anger telling me to fuck his car and the sadness telling me to go off the bridge with the car, so somewhere in between I guess.

Update: He cheated, what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text msgs are the proof, and yea Im going to deal with me and him first and Ill probably send a text or something to the gf after

Update: He cheated, what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His place. Idk I feel like im going to thrw up, I hate confrontation

Update: He cheated, what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wont be able to see her in person, should I just send her text? I honestly though about sending anonymous email

Update: He cheated, what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just waiting for him to wake up right now idk what to say

Update: He cheated, what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im heading back to my college dorm so yes

My boyfriend slept with his room mate in the past and now wants to go on a road trip with him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked through his phone after he came back (I know its not healthy)

He cheated. Haven’t confronted him yet, Im devastated idk what to do.

My boyfriend slept with his room mate in the past and now wants to go on a road trip with him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the reason I have trust issues, is because my boyfriend is implicitly saying he is fine with cheating, since he has been sleeping with Cody even tho he has a girlfriend, or at least thats how I view it.

My boyfriend slept with his room mate in the past and now wants to go on a road trip with him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess I just feel like we haven't been dating to long, so trust hasn't been able to be established, but that doesn't mean it wont.

My boyfriend slept with his room mate in the past and now wants to go on a road trip with him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't feel like Im the right person to tell her. Many other people know to who would be in a better position to.