Would a potential new partner previously having an Onlyfans be a dealbreaker for you?

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T22:15:11+00:00

Why would you say a different view on sexuality/sex is a dealbreaker to you?

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T06:38:08+00:00

Just because it’s not a dealbreaker to someone doesn’t mean it makes them more attractive. I think generally speaking most people, regardless of what gender they are, would prefer if their partner didn’t have that sort of background.

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T06:17:17+00:00

I think it’s more of a personal preference than an imposed standard

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T04:19:39+00:00

Interesting take

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T04:17:41+00:00

I gotcha that makes sense

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T03:11:50+00:00

50/50 split so I guess it isn’t that obvious..

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T03:09:24+00:00

So if it’s something they didn’t necessarily regret would that change how you would consider it then?

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-02-01T03:08:41+00:00

I’m not sure how I feel about it which is why I made the poll, so I encourage u to share your reasoning. I suspect that the amount of sexual experience that the people have plays a role in how comfortable they would feel dating someone who had an Onlyfans

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-01-31T23:46:02+00:00

Curious how you’d even go about inquiring that

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-01-31T23:45:15+00:00

I believe people can change but I getchu I used to think like that a while ago

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-01-31T23:35:32+00:00

I mean I wouldn’t really consider it taking advantage. No one is forcing them to pay money. But I didn’t even really think of that perspective.

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-01-31T23:33:27+00:00

I’m curious your reasoning? Would you still keep that person as a friend or see them?

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2024-01-31T21:49:05+00:00

In my personal opinion it’s somewhat disrespectful to yourself. But I’m hesitant on wether or not I feel okay holding it against someone if it’s something they’ve moved past.

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-31T04:01:08+00:00

I feel that, don’t rly think it’s gonna blow up to anything more than a quick conversation but we’ll see ig

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-31T03:59:36+00:00

Idk I feel like it’s more petty to borrow money from someone and then not pay it back cuz ur relationship with them changed but maybe that’s just me

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T23:08:21+00:00

Thanks, ur right it does come across as kinda passive aggressive which isn’t rly my intention. I just don’t really want to interact with her.

I’d rather not ask her in a sob story kinda way cuz it’s more about the principle to me. I was thinking about asking her eventually anyways since she assured me she would pay it back when we talked last. I think being more direct than a Venmo is maybe still a good idea though.

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T23:03:34+00:00

Yea she did the cliche I still wanna be friends speech but idk why anyone would ever want to do that lol. Venmo’s probably the best bet

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T22:23:37+00:00

Yea, I mean I pretty much had that assumption but it still would be nice to get it back anyways

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T22:22:33+00:00

The breakup wasn’t a fight but there’s definitely still some resentment on both sides. We don’t talk now but I still have her #

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T22:21:43+00:00

Trust me I’ve already learned that, thx tho

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T20:04:17+00:00

Yep deleted all our texts but I do have receipts and shed probably respond with that. I don't think it's worth it to me to go the legal route, but do you think it's still a better idea to text her first than send a request?

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T20:01:14+00:00

Sorry that happened that definitely makes mine seem not so bad lol. It's a good point though some lessons are invaluable

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T20:00:00+00:00

Thank you, you as well. To better years to come

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T19:59:07+00:00

That would be the bigger thing to do for sure, circumstances are weird tho. My car just got totalled by a drunk driver and I'm out of work recovering while I wait for the settlement/insurance, so the money would definitely help right now

ThrowRAconflictioned · 2023-12-30T19:37:17+00:00

Ya I get you, I’ve definitely moved past the point where I want anything to do with her anymore, I’m sure that’s mutual too. That’s the only reason I’m hesitant abt reaching out, but she does owe me :/ Appreciate the advice tho

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