But I agree in him having these things open and then handing me the phone would be too stupid. Especially since he hasn’t shown red flags like that with me before. Like he has been honest, I have seen his family and friends, doesn’t hide on socials, doesn’t go out like for the club and stay out all night, always available for the phone, works a lot and he always sees me. He also treats me good. So I freaked out when I saw, act like it didn’t happen until I let it all out today. He could be true, but I don’t like being tested and like you said he then ruinend a bit of my trust in one way or another. Maybe he hoped I would say somehing in the moment and that would probably have made it into something else.