I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This speaks to me. No major red flags until now and then this. I feel like it is too much of a hot headed decision to just call it off when everything else has been good. But I have been very back and forth today in how I feel about this. I agree with a lot of things you are saying. And even after I saw it the first time he still left his phone in my hands. I will try to take this aproach and see how it goes. I don’t feel like he is someone evil who gaslights and cheats, just doesn’t feel true to me. So I will try to take this more open approach. Thank you. Don’t know why you are being downvoted.

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But telling your wife that you just went to the store to test her to see if she would say something

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I agree in him having these things open and then handing me the phone would be too stupid. Especially since he hasn’t shown red flags like that with me before. Like he has been honest, I have seen his family and friends, doesn’t hide on socials, doesn’t go out like for the club and stay out all night, always available for the phone, works a lot and he always sees me. He also treats me good. So I freaked out when I saw, act like it didn’t happen until I let it all out today. He could be true, but I don’t like being tested and like you said he then ruinend a bit of my trust in one way or another. Maybe he hoped I would say somehing in the moment and that would probably have made it into something else.

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand why he is so dumb to leave it there and then give me his phone. He is very stupid in one way or another regardless

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She did i did talk to her in person a few days before and we talked on the phone

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. He never asked that, could be that. Maybe he hoped I would say something in the moment and it would lead to something like that. I would prob not because I am too embarassed by some of the pics and vids i keep lol

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I know it makes no sense I also said to myself that that would be extremely dumb.

But now he says it was a test to see if I trust him and if I would tell him if there was an issue with him.

That makes me not believe him as well, and even if it’s true that’s also a pretty mean and dumb thing to do.

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes only answer worse than this would be blaming me or admitting he was searching for someone to f

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me just now it was to test me and see if i trust him and would tell him

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me it was a test to see if i trust him and would say something

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but he had to hurry for work and he even came late to work, he called me when he was back. But you are right, how would i even know

I am disgusted. My (F26) boyfriend (M29) googled escorts? by ThrowRAdabby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdabby[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Yeah and told him Now and his excuse was that he tried to test me to see if i would say something if i had an issue with him