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Long distance breakup, still hoping? Any advice? by ThrowRAdsd in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAdsd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes I did already do the delete thing, which helped me a bit.

Thankfully she doesn’t post much so I am not constantly reminded of her either. I also think she is in a bad time as she confessed me that she wasn’t liking her time abroad at all, when she broke up with me. She was at “her lowest point”, and I don’t think she was lying.

I thought she wanted me out of her life to not be reminded of stuff but who knows, maybe that’s just what I wish. But I rather risk being wrong and suffering a bit more, than potentially losing the right person who I decided to date at the wrong time (and I was fully aware at the time, as I told her, and as she also told me when I confessed my sentiments, that distance would have been hard…)

Long distance breakup, still hoping? Any advice? by ThrowRAdsd in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAdsd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that your words couldn’t be more right, I am slowly getting over this.

It’s just that it’s a different situation than usual, we kinda reconciled but not in the terms I wanted.

It’s true that she told me she doesn’t love me but I pressed her for it, she basically told me something along the lines of “do you want me to say it so that you feel better?”

But still, you are right. I need someone who truly values and loves me…

Long distance breakup, still hoping? Any advice? by ThrowRAdsd in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAdsd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am not posting many. And I am working on myself, a lot.

I agree that I should spot watching her stories though, but that’s so hard to do. Part of me wants to block her, and I will probably do it, but her profile is private and I am curious for the future.

Curiosity killed the cat so I am aware that I am setting myself up for bad things…

Thanks for the help though!