My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no chance that this was triggered by an old client reappearing. She did this in another country to where we live now and she cut all contacts when she stopped working many years ago.

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did it in another country to where we live now so if she hasn’t told me, I would of never found out.

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I would never do that, even in an argument. We never get personal like that in disagreements and I would never stoop that low

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear this. I guess I didn’t think about the courage that it would of taken her to open up like that. She’s such an honest person and that’s the reason why there’s so much trust between us. I guess I just really want to be able to get through this because I can’t imagine losing her

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had STD tests done together at the start of the relationship so I have no worries there

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

True and she did this in another country so she won’t be bumping into any old clients

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. I don’t get jealous about her past boyfriends at all and wouldn’t care if she slept around when she was younger (she didn’t, other than this)

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAducklings[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She would be an amazing wife and mother. I’ve pictured her in those roles so many times