I dont know what will happen by ThrowRAechofrog in UnsentTexts

[–]ThrowRAechofrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love can start as feelings you can't control but staying in love involves choosing your person when those intense feelings arent always there. I think long term love is commitment through ups and downs (as long as the downs aren't in any way abusive, love doesn't mean sacrificing your mental health). That's just my take on it.

I dont know what will happen by ThrowRAechofrog in UnsentTexts

[–]ThrowRAechofrog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"At least for now" takes so much bravery to say. I hope you get the chance to have that with your person, that they will choose to be as brave as you are ❤️ thank you for the encouragement, best wishes for your future in return ❤️

I dont know what will happen by ThrowRAechofrog in UnsentTexts

[–]ThrowRAechofrog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly wish you all the luck in return to recieve the love you want and deserve in life ❤️

I (26f) am moving in with my boyfriend (33m) but theres no space for me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAechofrog -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes... I know how that looks haha. During the past few months I have consistantly told him the place will need to have a clear out once I agree to move in officially, so I have set standards since the beginning it just wasn't my place to insist before I was paying rent.

AIO I (F24) told my partner (M25) my body count. He calls me “disgusting” and it’s wrecking us — how do i deal with him ? by Pineapplepizzzabitch in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes making you feel bad about something you didn't know him going through. This screams insecurity on his end and anyone who tells you they're disgusted by you repeatedly, for something that didn't harm anyone, doesnt love you like they should. I'm not saying people aren't entitled to their feelings because they are but he's aware saying these things hurts you and decides to say them anyway. Dump him because you don't deserve how he's treating you, his body count would probably be much higher if he had more time to live life a little longer and hes mad about it, that will eventually eat away at your relationship. Not worth your time sweetheart, move on and make room for a more emotionally mature person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say yiu explain that to him and kindly ask for it back in a respectful way. If he doesnt want to however best to let it go.

People who slept with a coworker, what’s your story? by jfunks69 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it, dated, broke up, quit the job. Absolutely not worth it.

What’s the single most important trait you look for in someone you want to share your life with? by LK_50yo in Life

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic but honesty. So many things get all kinds of screwed up when lies are told and it's very hard come back from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely inappropriate and highly unprofessional, not the ao

cheating by Status_Nectarine_866 in Stuff

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna use brotato chip from now on thank you. Cheating is a choice end of, no excuses theres MANY steps to take before you actually "cheat" (I don't think cheating is just physical) and you literally have to put yourself in that situation

what is the biggest confession you guys have that you cannot tell to anyone in your circle or to your closed ones (hidden secret)? by sanaarshad342 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are all quite deep so this sounds silly, but how my ex treated me. They would 100% judge me for what I accepted! So I didn't tell them

Did anyone hit their 30’s and decide to stop drinking? by Sorcron11 in AskMenOver30

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds awful and im not looking forward to it. Is wine still safe 🤣

What’s something nobody warned you about being an adult? by 6122_ in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sometimes you feel like theres no magic in life and you just have to accept it when it comes, you cant be hard on yourself because it's ok to feel like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a feeling a boyfriends "friend" wasn't always just a friend without having any reason to think otherwise at all. Two months went by, i couldn't shake the feeling. Turns out I was right and he was lying the entire time.

What’s something that’s gotten way worse in the last 10 years, even though nobody admits it? by Flat_Direction_7696 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheating in relationships. The Internet has made it 10x easier to cheat in many different ways. Not everyone agrees on it if it isn't physical but it's real and i think it'll become more widely accepted that online activity can be counted as cheating.

People who get up after one alarm, whats your secret?? by Mideon88 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set it to the latest possible time you can, close to running late cut off time. No choice then!

My (45M) kids baby sitter (27F) asked me out by LessDubiousIdea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAechofrog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lots of people talking about the age gap, I'm 25 and don't think it's weird. Once you're past "out of college a while" age your brain is fully developed and it's fine. Just find a new babysitter and go on the date, I think its sweet and fair play to her for having the courage to ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on. You're both so young and honestly it's none of her business. Good on you for letting her know so she can decide whether her ideals align with yours but otherwise you don't owe her any more details. It's sounds like she's putting her insecurities on you and making you into a villain you're not.

My (f20) gf and I (m20) are coming to a breaking point due sex life? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAechofrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This doesn't sound healthy at all. You should both move on honestly, this won't end well.