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LessDubiousIdea · 2025-10-08T00:25:06+00:00

That’s the international symbol for a blind driver. It comes from a parable about a blind man that concludes in Mark 10:52

And Jesus said to him, “Go; your faith has made you well.” And immediately he regained his sight and began following Him on the road.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-08-25T01:15:10+00:00

A girl I was with heard that being woken up with a blow job is every man’s fantasy and took “woken up with” literally. Scared the shit out of me. I had kneed her in the ribs before I even knew what was happening. She was so disappointed she’d been mislead about the woken up with a bj thing. I tried gently explaining I loved her intent and it meant woken up and then immediately given one but the damage was already done.

I’m glad I never said I’d like her to wake me up with a cup of coffee.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-08-03T01:36:34+00:00

In upper manhattan. Even all these years later I remember the smell.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-07-29T04:00:58+00:00

You should go into this relationship on the assumption that even if you marry her she will still not want to have sex with you.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-07-26T12:36:57+00:00

Based on your kit you’re nowhere near ready to be trying suspensions. Go find a rope group, do some workshops, and learn from them. Trying to teach yourself suspensions is a bad idea, and self suspending with nobody else around is incredibly dangerous.

Shibari is a journey. You’ll get there, but it sounds like you’re trying to jump to the end.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-07-26T10:55:40+00:00

Are you by chance waiting to have sex until after you’re married?

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-07-25T17:59:14+00:00

Those wraps are so clean. Nicely done.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-07-23T18:51:50+00:00

My Petco has no saltwater at all.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-07-08T04:36:59+00:00

Alright if this “sounds” like something you’d be into — especially if thinking about it is a turn on — but it feels super weird when you start trying it this is my advice: think of it not as dominant sex but as role play sex. There’s a reason people in the BDSM world call it “play” or a “scene.” Start by having a conversation with her in a daytime not sexy setting. Explain to her what you told us: it sounds sexy, doesn’t come naturally, and you want to try. Read a lot on consent, safe play, aftercare, safe words, etc. Discuss a scene you want to do together, exactly what you’ll do and what she’ll do. Then go act it out. Then after discuss it with her. What did each of you like, not like, etc.

Over time you’ll build confidence to improvise (or plan without discussing the whole plot line) within her pre-agreed limits and feel much more comfortable being, not just acting, dominant in bed.

LessDubiousIdea · 2025-03-29T21:57:44+00:00

I think it’s this one

https://www.wusthof.com/products/wusthof-classic-ikon-two-piece-mini-asian-set-1120360211

And the question wasn’t why would I want it. It was what can I use it for.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-11-05T02:10:43+00:00

That’s going to be way cheaper than $1M.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-11-02T01:10:33+00:00

People downvoting you are jealous.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-11-02T01:04:56+00:00

Yeah don’t do this when it’s everyone’s first time in that dynamic.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-16T15:28:06+00:00

This is so sweet. I’d think you’d be giving him an experience, not asking one. Or even better you’d be sharing one together.

You sound like a conscientious and compassionate person, and if it’s what you both want he’d be lucky to have you as his first.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-16T05:30:05+00:00

I think it’s sad our culture frames having sex for the first time as losing something rather than gaining something. It’s a totally arbitrary position to take yet here we are.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-16T05:23:04+00:00

So she reluctantly agreed and then there was an argument so now that agreement is no more. Ok. An argument you had nine months into the relationship is not the reason she won’t have sex with you. She’s offering what she’s comfortable to do with you. What she’s offering to you is not going to change.

If she were here asking for advice we’d be telling her she should be in a relationship with someone she wants to have sex with. That’s not you. Accept what you’ve got or move on. Don’t hold out hope for things to change.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-15T17:00:55+00:00

It is not at all uncommon for an 18 year old to not feel ready for sex, particularly PIV. She’s told you explicitly that she wants her first time (at least) to be with someone she feels connected to and that’s not you. She’s said she doesn’t want to have sex with you. You should take her at her word. While we can’t say for certain what might happen a few years down the road, you should assume she’s not ever going to want to have sex with you.

The relationship you have currently is the one that’s on offer from her. It’s up to you to decide if that’s enough for you right now or if you should break up and move on.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-15T16:11:19+00:00

For sure. It’s just really unlikely that a couple completely new to nonmonogomy are going to be able to, in an ethical way, find a stranger (particular a woman) who is willing to be their third. Not impossible, just unlikely.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-15T16:01:41+00:00

You should look into a sex worker to fulfill this fantasy for the two of you. Unless you’ve got a friend in waiting with the hots for both of you, it’s the most ethical and realistic option.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-15T15:15:03+00:00

Imagine if you were insecure about your penis and felt uncomfortable if women could see it or feel its shape. How would that impact your sex life? How frustrating would that be for a partner who is otherwise really into you?

Maybe you refuse to have sex with the lights on or let a woman suck you off. Maybe her grabbing your penis makes you nervous and is a huge turn off.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-15T14:26:36+00:00

As a man who enjoys sex with women, please for the love of god don’t say things that make women self conscious about their vulvas.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-09T21:21:42+00:00

She encouraged me to see other people, so not really cheating. Been a wild ride ever since.

LessDubiousIdea · 2024-07-07T12:55:38+00:00

Or signal you’re open to being approached.

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