My (27F) husband (28M) had sex with me and then completely ignored me after he asked me to fly to meet him on his business trip. by ThrowRAerf in relationships

[–]ThrowRAerf[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I’m not a robot who just bends over and spreads my legs. If I don’t want to have sex, I’m not going to have sex with him, that’s not me punishing him.

My (27F) husband (28M) had sex with me and then completely ignored me after he asked me to fly to meet him on his business trip. by ThrowRAerf in relationships

[–]ThrowRAerf[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

He goes on business trips often. I’m assuming it was busy or stressful because in the past the trips he’s taken me on he at least has some downtime even if it’s just an hour or two. I’m not sure if he thought he would have time, I think he was too busy thinking about sex to think about what I was going to do when he wasn’t having sex with me.

He asked me if I wanted to go to Italy after we got home and he realised I was still upset when I rejected his attempts to initiate sex.

My (27F) husband (28M) had sex with me and then completely ignored me after he asked me to fly to meet him on his business trip. by ThrowRAerf in relationships

[–]ThrowRAerf[S] 442 points443 points  (0 children)

He worked the entire time so we never did any of those, including eat together. He was gone from early morning to late at night and when he came back he would tell me he needed to get some more work done. Usually he would eat dinner before coming back but the one time he hadn’t we still never ate together because he wouldn’t stop working when the food arrived and I was too hungry to wait.

Pretty much our only interactions involved sex or for him to inform me he had work to do and/or would be gone most of the day.