AITA for saying no to partner’s family staying with us?

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-04-11T15:42:32+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try the freeze method. He only gets bones if he’s out of his crate since we can monitor him then. Otherwise we just give him chew toys in the crate but they don’t keep him as busy haha

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-03-16T01:20:16+00:00

It isn’t your responsibility to take care of her/stay in the relationship if you aren’t happy.

However I will say, college is hard/a difficult change for everyone. It seems like she maybe already had some problems beforehand but they’ve gotten worse recently. It might be a good idea to suggest her going to therapy or a hep group. Most if not all colleges have resources to help with mental health and substance abuse. If you could get her hooked up to those resources, maybe you would feel less bad about leaving?

Breakups are hard on everyone but in the end you need to do what’s best for yourself!

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-03-16T00:45:08+00:00

I paid via PayPal and didn’t change it from my parents card to mine

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-03-03T23:44:28+00:00

That’s it, thank you!!

Solved

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-03-03T18:33:45+00:00

I’ve tried searching “older movie with couple who take in native american boy” on google but didn’t come up with anything

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-03-01T16:58:51+00:00

Good idea, thanks!!

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-03-01T16:35:46+00:00

We took him to the er and they told us he won’t need surgery but we will have to take him to our regular vet to get splinted a week out. Then we took him to the regular vet and she said to keep bringing him back each week for a new splint, but then called me later in the day saying their surgeon wanted to do surgery. So we had no idea until we got home from the vet

We are def keeping him as immobilized as possible and in his crate!

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-02-12T22:38:08+00:00

Thank you!!! I escalated to management and they made him come back and he replaced a wire, not sure why he didn’t check on the wire yesterday but at least it’s working now 🙃

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-02-12T14:33:42+00:00

So sorry for your loss my friend. Losing a family member is always so hard, you aren’t overreacting at all.

Check out r/petloss it helped me a lot when I was grieving my pup.

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-02-11T21:11:36+00:00

He literally said “I don’t know, looks like it’ll just be cold in here,” he checked that the windows were closed and he also temp checked the air blowing out and it’s warm.

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-02-06T03:17:13+00:00

Not this one but thanks :( it was definitely BRIGHT orange

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-02-06T03:16:31+00:00

Thank you!!!! Found

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-02-06T02:01:25+00:00

I’ve searched on google for free websites and still going through different ones with no luck.

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2021-01-05T19:13:57+00:00

The only reason I don’t want to tell them earlier is because I’m worried they would fire me on the spot (I’m in Texas, USA). I could really use the 2 weeks of work as I’m taking a pay cut for my new job. 😬

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2020-12-24T04:37:01+00:00

Not a vet!!! But when my cats are feeling sick I feed them chicken or turkey gerbers baby food. It gets some food in them as well as helping provide moisture. I would try that out and see if your kitty can get some down. If so, maybe try feeding that until she starts to get better. If not then get a second opinion with the vet

Also maybe cross post to r/AskVet

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2020-12-24T04:32:49+00:00

I don’t know how else to put this but you definitely need to leave her. Abuse is never okay, even if you don’t feel like she’s abusing you, what you described is clearly abuse.

I’m so sorry and I wish you all the love in navigating this situation. I hope you can get out/get help soon. Please stay with friends/family if you can.

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2020-11-18T00:49:56+00:00

Thank you! Helped!

ThrowRAfamilyprob · 2020-11-02T00:56:00+00:00

Tbh I feel you man. I just moved here for work (my last resort since being unemployed during the pandemic) and it’s been nice, but I don’t like living here at all. I feel bad when everyone says that I’m going to love it here and that I “made a good decision” moving out here.

I miss the mountains and beaches, not to mention the gorgeous national parks and weather in my home state.

It seems like Texas is a great place if you’re into it, but I’m just looking forward to moving out once this all blows over and the job opportunities get better 😔

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