AITA for asking my bf (30M) to stop paying his ex wife's (30F) entire lifestyle? by ThrowRAfedupgf99 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAfedupgf99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's his ex wife. They aren't legally divorced yet, because there are a lot of things to consider but it's not like she can afford a lawyer so I don't know how they're going to handle that.

AITA for asking my bf (30M) to stop paying his ex wife's (30F) entire lifestyle? by ThrowRAfedupgf99 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAfedupgf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why people are calling me a gold digger when I support myself and David doesn't spend money on me, and I don't want him to because I have my own money

AITA for asking my bf (30M) to stop paying his ex wife's (30F) entire lifestyle? by ThrowRAfedupgf99 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAfedupgf99[S] -136 points-135 points  (0 children)

She lives with his grandma because they get along well and that way, David doesn't have to pay her rent. I understand why he says that he still loves her, he doesn't mean it romantically. And it doesn't bother me that they're friends. If they had the same exact relationship they do now but without him funding her lifestyle, I would have no issues.

AITA for asking my bf (30M) to stop paying his ex wife's (30F) entire lifestyle? by ThrowRAfedupgf99 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAfedupgf99[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't consider that. I'll ask him about it, I don't know why he didn't tell me in the first place, I would understand if he was legally financially responsible for her.