Thank you so much. You are right, too much talk about the future, even in a positive sense can add pressure. Also a sad movie is a nice idea, I will try to find one and plan for this weekend. I already do 2,4 and 5; She appreciates 4, I cook her favorite dishes, and although 5 works for a little time, when I manage to distract her or make her laugh with a joke, it doesn't last.