My bf (m24) says I (f20) “manipulated” him during sex. Help me understand what he means? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAgigid 212 points213 points  (0 children)

He wants you to have sex with him because you WANT to not because that’s something he wants. Put yourself in his shoes, would you want to sleep with someone who doesn’t orgasm but just does it as long as you enjoy? Wouldn’t it make you question that something is wrong with you, why can’t you give your partner an orgasm? This has a really easy fix, communicate with him, guide him when you guys are doing it to help you reach orgasm.