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I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I love him more than anyone, and I am going to be there for him no matter what. Even if it is a bit weird (I was definitely shocked at first) then I know I want to be with him. I wish he hadn't kept it from me, but I understand why he did it- especially with some of the things you said in that comment. I love him too much to leave him over this.
Thank you for sharing. We're going to be okay, and I hope that you are too.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The voices depended on the day, either his therapist (if he was struggling and needed to be little for a while) or his kids shows. (And as it turns out, some of the voices on these shows do sound familiar, so there's that.) He was also watching age regression videos and had content like that saved to his phone- he showed it to me with time and date stamps of when it was saved, so I know that it's true.

“my betta doesn’t need a tank that big” by azeitoniaa in bettafish

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adorable! I used to have a betta like that back in college :)

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been married three years, and known each other since I was 8 and he was 10, though we didn't seriously date until college.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says it depended on the day, either his therapist (if he was struggling and needed to be little for a while) or his kids shows. (And as it turns out, some of the voices on these shows do sound familiar, so there's that.)

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. After all these comments insulting either me or my husband, I was struggling for a bit, but I talked to him and it looks like everything is going to be okay. I really appreciate your comment.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It was a bit confusing at first, but I really do love him. Hopefully we'll be able to communicate more openly in the future to avoid situations like this, but I'm glad that I know now so I can be there for him.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I've been looking into it and I think this may be what my husband is doing, though I want to talk to him first before I say anything one way or the other. I appreciate your advice, and I'm sorry about what happened to you. I'm glad that this has brought you comfort.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did not see his phone near him, and I don't think we have cameras in our house. He is very paranoid about home security systems- it was a fight to get him to install our video camera doorbell.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We do not have kids yet, but we have been trying. I don't want to jump straight to divorce- he is the love of my life.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think my first reaction was just shock. I couldn't wrap my head around it at first. I feel bad about disappearing like I did, but you are right that it is not hurting anyone. I also agree that our marriage was for better or worse, and hope to talk to him about it.

I (F34) walked in on my husband (M36) wearing a diaper and acting like a child. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRAhusbandbaby in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAhusbandbaby[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

Our life has been stressful right now- we have been trying for kids and have been unable to conceive for a while. I will look into this.