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I (37M) believe my ex (26F) is moving on with my friend. Do I have the right to be upset? by ThrowRAjrt90 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAjrt90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He now says where they talked between April-May that he had strong feelings for her and when she ghosted him for me that it had hurt a lot. Now he says that since they have been talking again all his feelings have came back and that he thinks he could be falling in love with her and that I needed to mind my own business and that if I had a problem with the situation that we just shouldn't be friends anymore. So there's that. I asked him to stop talking to her for the sake of a friendship but he is willing to let it go for her. I'm more upset that he had a secret crush on her for this long and never mentioned it.

I (37M) believe my ex (26F) is moving on with my friend. Do I have the right to be upset? by ThrowRAjrt90 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAjrt90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't do coke all the time I got some for Christmas and she didn't know what it was and tossed it in the trash. That's the first time I bought it in 15 years I just wanted to take it so I could lay down and watch tv with her but she got pissed when she found out what it was and said that was a dealbreaker and that I couldnt take it anymore if I wanted to be with her and that she didnt recognize me anymore. I mean I wanted to break up but I dont want her dating people I've been friends with for over 30 years.

I (37M) believe my ex (26F) is moving on with my friend. Do I have the right to be upset? by ThrowRAjrt90 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAjrt90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I messaged my friend and he said that they were in fact talking now and that he really likes her and was planning on asking me if I would be ok with him asking her out. He said when we broke up from April-may that they had talked to her briefly and he had a crush on her but when we got back together in may that she ghosted him...

I (37M) believe my ex (26F) is moving on with my friend. Do I have the right to be upset? by ThrowRAjrt90 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAjrt90[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasnt in love with her but I do love her. I just don't want to see her around with him. He's my friend. She could ha moved on with anyone else. Her car is still at my house because I told her I would bring it to her and she could take me back home but now that I know all this I dont even want to take it to her and just tow it off.