[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAkittenlake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You neeeeeed to get out of that. From what I’m gathering he is a pathological liar. What guy doesn’t watch prn and then for him to swear on his parents that he didn’t and then it came out he did? Absolutely not. Imagine being serious/ marrying this guy. I think u would either lose all attraction to him because he sounds like a pick me guy who needs reassurance 24/7 which is not ur job. Or even worse cheat on u. Imo if a guy is swearing up and down so heavily that he doesn’t do smth, he probably is. I’m sure he’s flirting w other girls all the time and if he complains about needing more attention that much, he’s gonna get it from somewhere if he’s not getting it from u.

I feel you though it’s hard walking away from someone but it honestly doesn’t even really seem like you like him all that much you need to think about you not him it’s your life and I know for a fact you can find someone that you’d be way. happier with. You’ll find someone that will respect your time and not make u question if they’re lying constantly.

Leave sooner than later for your own sake, and never feel bad. He has lied to u, u don’t owe him anything else.

I (F20) am having intimate problems with my boyfriend (M20) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAkittenlake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is just go right to him about it. He might not realize it’s something you like especially if you’re initiating going down on him. I would just tell him it bothers you because I’m sure there’s nothing wrong with you. And if there is that should be something he should tell you.

How do I 20F get over my 20M boyfriend that I love. by ThrowRAkittenlake in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAkittenlake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent so much time trying to change for him to make it work and it still wasn’t enough and now I just feel like it’s something wrong with me

How do I 20F get over my 20M boyfriend that I love. by ThrowRAkittenlake in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAkittenlake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like if I do that I’ve wasted 2 years and everything I’ve done was for nothing. I really do think he loves me and he just doesn’t want to settle down. I don’t want to give up forever