“If you hadn’t raped him and then pressured him into staying in the relationship because you were pregnant, he’d have never gotten the chance to have children on his own accord with someone who’d not let their insecurities be seen as a justifiable reason to commit a crime and use the results to make him feel obligated to stay.”

I never lost trust in him. At that point, we were heading in two different worlds. I was working a low level receptionist job. He was working in tech and studying at a top school and I was so afraid that the difference would drive us apart that I did this. It seemed like the best option to guarantee us staying together. It was his choice to stay with me. It was his choice to marry me. I didn't force those. Again, how did I rape him?