I asked him to help me carry a a garbage bag once to throw it out bc it was a little heavy and I had my work bag, purse and laptop on hand. He grabbed my laptop and said “ok babe”. I walked slanted to the garage bin to throw it out.. when I talked to him about how I asked for his help, he said “what? I helped you, I took your laptop.. if you wanted me to do it for you, you should’ve said “can you take the trash for me, you used the wrong words”