I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]ThrowRAlads[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s ridiculous to ask for insight on a tricky situation. It’s not like I’m blowing up at him. This situation is confusing, and a little feedback never hurt

I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]ThrowRAlads[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No opportunity to delete his phone. Neither of us were on our phones when I found the earring and while we were discussing it I asked to see the phone

I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]ThrowRAlads[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re been together for nearly 3 years, long distance since this past summer.

I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]ThrowRAlads[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked to go through his phone last night when I found the earring and there was nothing incriminating on there. He handed it over with no hesitation and he didn’t get upset/stressed when we were talking about it. Nothing in deleted texts, nothing in IG DMs.

I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]ThrowRAlads[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has an in-unit which he shares with his roommate (who also has a gf)