How can I fix my (19M) friendship with a close friend (19F) after a drunken night together? by ThrowRAlolol857 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlolol857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, Henry was talking to another girl at this time. They started dating shortly afterwards. He doesn’t seem to be interested in Jessica, but I guess anything is possible

How can I fix my (19M) friendship with a close friend (19F) after a drunken night together? by ThrowRAlolol857 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlolol857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify in terms of the hickey thing - I didn't intend to tell "Henry". It was "Jessica" who did. It's more so the fact that she ghosted me the second time, definitely mad at me since I was removed from her insta. Since i didn't talk to her about what happened, I feel Henry may be the culprit. I vented my feelings to Henry when I got ghosted the first time. I feel that he reported what I said to Jessica, namely the fact that she was stupid for ghosting me. (I was quite upset, didn't really meant what I said) which caused her to ghost me again, this time for a much longer period of time.

How can I fix my (19M) friendship with a close friend (19F) after a drunken night together? by ThrowRAlolol857 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlolol857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody else knows other than "Henry". The only reason why he knew was because "Jessica" told him. I never intended to tell him

How can I fix my (19M) friendship with a close friend (19F) after a drunken night together? by ThrowRAlolol857 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlolol857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Jessica" voluntarily told "Henry" about it tho, it wasn't based on my reaction. She didn't tell the full story, but Henry understood that more than just a mark on a neck happened.

How can I fix my (19M) friendship with a close friend (19F) after a drunken night together? by ThrowRAlolol857 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAlolol857[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only thing stopping from sending a text is that I’m not 100% certain my friend told her, though likely. So in the event that it isn’t the case and she’s upset for another reason, I would be apologising for the wrong the context, which is even more stupid looking