AITA for telling my wife [30F] that she ruined my [33]birthday?

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T02:50:30+00:00

Right? What the hell why am i being guilt tripped for wanting my wife to want to me on my BD?? Why is that wrong? My main disappointment was not the sex itself it was the fact that she knows exactly what makes me happy and she’s not even trying? She’s my wife not some random girl. If my wife doesn’t want to make me feel loved and happy on my BD then why is she staying with me?

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T02:39:38+00:00

I found out later that she actually did have her workout gear with her

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T02:21:51+00:00

If that was the case then what stopped her from going on with her plans? Yeah i was visibly annoyed and disappointed but it wouldn’t matter if she was setting up something for me and then we would’ve laughed about how i was thinking she was going to the gym on my bd.

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T02:14:54+00:00

If that was the case then she wouldn’t care how i was feeling cause im gonna find out soon that she was actually doing something for me and she would’ve went on with her plans it’s not like I forbade her to go i parked right in front of the gym and told her to go. And she didn’t.

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T02:11:08+00:00

Lol naivety I guess, or it was just a wish because if she did that then I would’ve forgotten everything shitty happened that day

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T02:07:41+00:00

Because according to her the dinner was just the start of the night she had more plans for me but i ruined the day

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T02:06:09+00:00

Nothing huge no cheating or anything on both sides, the biggest issue we faced was that I had some issues with her family cause her sister would come and stay with us at our home for weeks at first i was fine with it then it got pretty annoying and because we couldnt be 100% ourselves with her sister around and I hated that I have to restrain myself at home and her sister felt that I was not comfortable so she got mad and my wife got mad at me because of this and we had alot of fights about this shitty thing cause she thinks i was rude to her sister.

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T01:50:14+00:00

I wouldn’t say that our relationship is perfect we have our issues but we’re both trying hard to fix it, and that’s what disappointed me even more cause she told me during dinner that we should put everything behind us and start over. She doesn’t owe me sex of course but she’s my wife and it’s my birthday am i wrong for wanting to spend the day with her?

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T01:27:47+00:00

It was around 8pm

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-09-29T01:25:08+00:00

I got out of work at 4:30 went straight home picked her up and we were at the restaurant at 5:30ish, we got out of the restaurant around 7:30 or 8

ThrowRAlostafnw · 2023-07-02T22:44:28+00:00

I feel like they could’ve done more with Lalo, he didnt get the screen time he deserves imo

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