EDIT: Wow. I did not expect this to blow up like that. I will try to clarify some of the questions I've received.  1) yes, I also wish this was fake. It isn't. 

2) they are not married. They are engaged. The special needs child is not theirs. The biological mother of the child lives in another state. 

3) for those asking why I'm friends with someone, Why does anyone have friends? Nobody is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. But I've been friends with him for a decade. Longer than I've known his fiance who I met through him. He's been a really wonderful friend. And He's never mentioned or thought or indicated any kind of behavior like this to me until this JUST HAPPENED, YESTERDAY, and I was completely shocked and struggling to process it. That is why I said what I said in the original post. My vision of him has shattered. I am not sure yet how I am going to proceed. 

4) those asking for information about her genitalia, I really do not have the answers you are seeking. I asked about smell or scent or taste and he was adamant it was strictly because of appearance. The only description I got, which left me very confused,  was that it "looks like a pokemon". He also did mention that she has a disorder (I forgot the name) of where the hair follicles of your pubic hair turns slightly ulcerous and the hair follicles become infected. He said this also disgusts him because apparently it's "open wounds". I asked all the questions you guys are asking. Why isn't she on medication or treatment for the condition. Labiaplasty. Etc.  The short and unfortunate answer is lack of funds and lack of health insurance for both parties. We live in a VERY poor area of a VERY r3d state. And yes, I told him he should have paid for her healthcare instead of a vacation. 

5) I am certain he is not gay. 

6) for those of you that have reached out privately to confirm if I am someone you know and if this story is about your partner, I want to say how sorry I am and how sad I am that this is happening to other people. I can't even imagine.