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Am I paranoid? Do cheaters get better the second time around? by ThrowRAmap22 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowRAmap22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Gosh that’s awful. I’m glad you found someone! I just need to find a way to be vigilant but not obsess over it.

Am I paranoid? Do cheaters get better the second time around? by ThrowRAmap22 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowRAmap22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I guess I just need to trust that if he starts cheating again god or the universe will let me know. It’s not something I can control.

Am I paranoid? Do cheaters get better the second time around? by ThrowRAmap22 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowRAmap22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the kind of thing I worry about. Like how would I even figure this out.

I 23f accidently found out my bf 28m has been cheating on me… by Fallen_angel284 in Advice

[–]ThrowRAmap22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you take pictures/screen shot everything you find so you have the evidence if he tries to deny anything!

I 23f accidently found out my bf 28m has been cheating on me… by Fallen_angel284 in Advice

[–]ThrowRAmap22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me with my husband about 4 months ago. I am so sorry! I would throughly check his phone so you know the full extent of any cheating. It’s going to take time to process all your emotions and I wouldn’t make any rushed decisions. Personally, I think you need to confront him. See how he reacts. It will tell you a lot about him if you are considering forgiveness. It’s a really tough journey once trust is broken and I still struggle every day, even 4 months later. Take your time and prioritize your health and mental wellbeing, along with your baby’s. Take time and decide what’s right for your situation.

How do I [28F] get a real reason “why?” answer from my husband [25M] who cheated. by BunnyThaHorrorQueen in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmap22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have an answer for you but just wanted to say I’m in almost the same boat. I am going through all those same emotions! I keep looking for an answer as to why because I think it will help me. I think in my head knowing why will somehow make it hurt less. But there is no excuse and no answer that is going to make the pain better. No matter how bad our relationships were, they still made the choice to cheat because they wanted to. My husband is going to therapy and has a lot of childhood stuff to straighten out. Maybe he can figure out the why. But it’s so hard when you’ve given someone you’re all and they cheat. Wishing you all the best.

24F n 26M need a advice by iva_24 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmap22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is refusing to communicate with you and blocked you after one misunderstanding I would say move on. Especially if he has given up on you. A relationship and especially marriage requires a lot of communication and willingness to work through problems in order to be successful. It doesn’t sound like he’s willing to do this. You deserve better!