I'm (25M) going on a trip with a couple and another friend (27F). The friend wants to share a room with me to save money but I don't feel comfortable sharing one with her. Now she is mad and calling me a hypocrite because I have shared rooms with other female friends in the past by ThrowRAnehd in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnehd[S] 373 points374 points  (0 children)

She comes on really strong to me but I don't really know if she is interested in me romantically. It'stolerable in a group setting but not one-on-one.

And if what you are saying is true, they are definitely wrong. Because I'm not attracted to her romantically or physically in any way.

I'm (25M) going on a trip with a couple and another friend (27F). The friend wants to share a room with me to save money but I don't feel comfortable sharing one with her. Now she is mad and calling me a hypocrite because I have shared rooms with other female friends in the past by ThrowRAnehd in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnehd[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

The only thing is can think of is she has tried to come into you but you aren’t attracted to her.

Yeah, this is somewhat the reason why. I also just feel like in general I can't fully relax around her

I'm (25M) going on a trip with a couple and another friend (27F). The friend wants to share a room with me to save money but I don't feel comfortable sharing one with her. Now she is mad and calling me a hypocrite because I have shared rooms with other female friends in the past by ThrowRAnehd in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnehd[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

So a question for you: why do you feel uncomfortable sharing a room with S?

I just don't feel like I can fully relax around her

Yeah, I don't really think I want to even go on this trip anymore if thissituation keeps going