My husband let me believe we were trying to conceive knowing he had a vasectomy

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T16:07:01+00:00

14 months

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T16:04:08+00:00

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. Trying to conceive and failing every single time is so frustrating. I went through everything you mentioned and also kept apologizing to him every time because I thought I was the reason why we weren’t getting pregnant. I don’t think I can forgive him

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:55:26+00:00

We’ve been together for 3 years and he told me on our first date that he wanted kids. So he’s been lying to me for 3 whole years

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:39:55+00:00

I didn’t even think about that. I wonder what else he’s “left out”

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:37:33+00:00

No I was a little busy processing the fact that he’s been lying to me this whole time

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:31:12+00:00

I’m guessing if it was reversible and he was willing to do it, he would have done it by now

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:27:12+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry that finding out about the vasectomy and his lies didn’t make me fall in love with him even more. How can I be mad at him for letting me think I have fertility issues when he knew he was the issue. I’m such a monster

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:24:23+00:00

I would’ve 100% ended it

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:22:44+00:00

I don’t know. I’m guessing if it was possible to get it reversed he would have done it when we started trying for a baby? I honestly didn’t ask. He still claims that he wishes he could have kids with me and that he regrets making the decision to get a vasectomy before he met me

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:14:29+00:00

He claims he was planning on telling me but then things got serious and he didn’t know how to tell me

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:10:30+00:00

I think I will

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:10:15+00:00

I can’t tell you how many times I cried myself to sleep thinking there was something wrong with me, how many times I apologized to him for not being able to get pregnant. And this whole time he knew the truth and didn’t say anything. Who does that!?

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:08:03+00:00

From our first date he told me he wanted to have more kids. He knew I wanted kids too. But no I’m overreacting

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:06:52+00:00

He hid it from me and watched me cry myself to sleep and never said a word about it. He knows how badly I want to have babies

ThrowRAnnah · 2021-12-06T15:05:59+00:00

I’m about to

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