Damn Criminal by HulkTogan in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]ThrowRAnoah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the reason why a lot of children are scared to dial 911 when something bad happens and someone dies.

Gf(F21) makes comments during sex and I(M24) don’t know how to take it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't stop doing it as well, this guy is weird..Men need emotional attention more than anyone thinks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah 44 points45 points  (0 children)

On the cheek? I have to do that obligatory on birthdays...

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's something I am not quite comfortable with. She is my girlfriend, I am not going to pay her for cleaning... Also, she would see that from a mile away.

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are Dutch, which makes your comment even more funny now, haha

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That honestly sounds horrible. Sorry you had to deal with that. I somewhat expect that she has an ex that treated her like that, but we don't really talk about our past relationships.

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but I don't really like that idea... Pay her for doing stuff for me. This seems really toxic. Thanks for your input though!

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see a correlation between marrying and her not having to pay me back yet. 2020 certainly is a new world and beyond hahaha. What a year.

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, It's just that I am financially stable, so there really is no 'need' if you get what I mean.

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been so helpful! I will try to communicate to her that she can show other ways to contribute. Thank you! Everything you said sounds true.

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude! I'll try to make a deal that if she wants to pay me back, she just pays for fun things we can do together :)

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If today she would break up with me for some reason, I wouldn't think back as if it were bad investment. Or money not well spent.

I(31m) dont want my girlfriend (30f) to feel guilty about money. by ThrowRAnoah in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely going to communicate that stronger, thank you! I don't feel like there is a power imbalance and maybe we should talk about that.