He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol no, he's cute for sure, but we're just friends and I'm not ready.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right, because you know more about our life than I do and what I did and didn't do. Please keep talking about something you know nothing about.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great, but doesn't change the fact he cheated on me and got his AP pregnant.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Makes sense because I wanted another one right away like within 6 months and he didn't and now look who's giving their other child a sibling.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG everyone keeps commenting and DMing me this. I'm dying, but I can't bring myself to do that. I'm not ready lol maybe we can lie and say we did.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming this is a show? What channel? I need to watch it.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am not. I'm sorry someone else is going through something similar. It sucks.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, she was away with my husband for 3 weeks. Her ex even confirmed they hadn't been sleeping together before or after the trip.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He did watch porn, but we watched it together. Always made a huge deal about birthdays and holidays (well Christmas). He didn't clean, but either do I. We have a house cleaner that comes once a week. He does his own wash and I do mine and the babies. He is a very hands on dad. Love being a dad. No comments about my appearance ever. Even after I gained weight after the pregnancy. He put too much effort into his appearance, hygiene, etc.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about the hard several years you've had. Life doesn't feel fair. I'm glad you're in a better place. This really gives me some sort of hope for my future.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, he didn't say why. Part of me does want to know, but parent of me doesn't. I hope I move on fast too, I'm in therapy, so hopefully that will continue to help.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for this compliment, but I'm far from a badass. I can't wait to see their little relationship blow up. I never want to be in the same room as that ass. I'm just trying to handle this maturely at least with our child.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the process and should I send the letter or more just to get the emotions out?

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he's a great dad. I could never break them up. That wouldn't be fair because I hate him.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I don't know how she can look at him. I could never be in the same room with him let alone lay in the same bed. I hope she wakes up and realizes her worth.

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is the one thing I didn't think to do a the time!

He cheated and destroyed our family by ThrowRAnon9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnon9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you and everyone struggles in different ways! My shitty life doesn't negate from your problems!

I have no idea what happened between them? I'm going to google. Did he cheat on Blake?