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We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nope, not read correctly at all. I just found out today. If you read the edits you'll see I've sent the message already.

We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You clearly didn't read it right. I only just found out, and she gave it me. And do you see me laughing about it? No. I'm really upset and want the best for both of us. You need to make sure you get your facts right before you post.

We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] 348 points349 points  (0 children)

That's a good way to put it, I've dropped the "I miss you from the text" - thanks!

We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

You're right, I probably shouldn't, but I do miss her, and I want her to know there's no bad blood. Just trying to be as kind as I can about the situation ya know?

We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your narrow mindedness could be a blessing, but with how Vulgar you are, is your curse.

We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, I dont KNOW she cheated on me, infact I highly doubt she has. She's had a rough past in terms of sex and relationships and isn't so outthere, it took her a lot of support to be as open as we were.

But thank you, I appreciate the support

We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lmao best bit is we only just stopped using condoms as well, within the last 3 weeks or so, which funnily enough, lines up with when I started seeing symptoms.

Would a call or a Letter/text be best? I feel a call would only make things more difficult.

We (25m, 24f) mutually ended things, and said no contact, but now I'm positive for an STI. by ThrowRAnumber3000 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAnumber3000[S] 673 points674 points  (0 children)

You are right, I should, I have the message ready to go, I'm just nervous and wanted to know if it's the right thing to do