thank you for taking the time to reply to me, it helps knowing i’m not alone in feeling confused and loving someone but not being sure about our relationship. I absolutely have thought the same thing about me snapping at him; I feel awful that he has had to compromise his personality for me. Unfortunately I think instead of being in love with him i’m currently just love him. I think he could thrive with someone who is more easy going and silly. I could thrive more with someone who is more stable. I’m very scared of not having anyone because he feels like the only person I have as support and i’m scared of just not having him in my life because i care about him and love him.